I found out what the problem is with my computer, I have no idea why but the motherboard is.."backwards"? Which I mentioned in my last post. Its built really weird and while my new graphics card would of fit on a normal computer it just doesn't fit my motherboard. I can't really figure out why my motherboard is designed like this, considering I've looked up a few dozen other boards and -none- of them are designed like mine.
Here's a picture of the inside of my computer. (Sad I know)
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2di38zq&s=7
Here's what a motherboard -should- look like.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813128437
The difference is subtle till you realize it makes a huge difference.
In short! I either have to return my new graphics card which will take at -least- 1-2 weeks before I even get my money back, plus they'll charge me a "restocking fee" of 20 bucks....Then order another, cheaper yet crappier one that -will- work with my computer, and likely give me problems in the future.
OR I can spend about 300 more dollars getting a new motherboard(one that isn't backwards), processor, and bigger casing(because mine is pretty small) -just- so I don't have the same problems in the future.
Either way I fee like i'm screwed and I may have to get a full time job(or two) just to pay for it all.